And ultimately, if you care about someone else, you throw the rulebook out the window once you know the other person. Because they're their own person. And if you've picked right, you've picked someone who is made happy by who you are.

All these rules are for someone generic that isn't most people. Do you think some TikTok "How to Make Your Wife Happy" would list what you care most about?

And they should make you every bit as happy.

https://medium.com/illumination-curated/how-to-get-the-right-man-to-want-you-8792cd49f648?sk=5cbb362899a1bf088b8102147f6582ec